How do I ask my girlfriends dad for permission to marry her?
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How do I ask my girlfriends dad for permission to marry her?
Here’s how to talk to your girlfriend’s father about getting married:
- Make sure you and your GF are on the same page about marriage.
- Meet the parents first if you can.
- Have a man-to-man conversation with her dad.
- Explain your wish to marry his daughter.
- Ask for his blessing to propose marriage.
- Now it’s time to PROPOSE!
Do I have to ask my girlfriend’s dad permission to marry her?
It is indeed traditional to ask a woman’s father if you can marry her, because traditionally, marriage was a property transfer – with you, the bride, as the property.
How should you ask a dad to marry his daughter?
How to Ask a Dad to Marry His Daughter
- Talk about it. Make sure marriage is truly on the horizon before you stress about how to ask a day to marry his daughter.
- Consider other family members.
- Choose your words wisely.
- Be intentional.
- Share your love story (and the ring!).
- Get personal.
- Make it memorable.
Should I ask her father before I propose?
We know it’s a little old fashion, but it’s still preferred for men to ask the girlfriend’s family for permission before proposing. You don’t have to necessarily ask her father, but at least let someone in her immediate family know of your intentions of marriage. Here are some more tips on how to ask the father.
How long before I propose should I ask her father?
“In fact, most parents will expect the conversation to happen before proposal plans are made, so we suggest asking at least a few weeks prior to proposing.”
How long should you be engaged before marrying?
The average couple is engaged for 13 months, and we think that’s a great timeframe if you can make it work. We recommend waiting about three weeks before jumping into wedding planning. This gives you time to revel in your engagement, but not too long so you don’t lose momentum.