How do I respond to my ex apologizing?

Try saying: “Thank you, I needed to hear this apology. I really am hurt.” Or, “I appreciate your apology. I need time to think about it, and I need to see a change in your actions before I can move forward with you.” Don’t attack the transgressor, as hard as it may be to hold back in the moment.

What does it mean when your ex apologizes to you?

If the ex says this soon after the breakup, it could mean he or she wishes the breakup had not happened. Or, regardless of when it is said, it could be intended to sooth the speaker’s conscience and/or the listener’s feelings. (Compare “I’m sorry for what happened,” to “I’m so glad to be rid of you, loser!)

Why do exes apologize months later?

It’s possible your ex may feel bad about what happened and wants to seek your forgiveness and make peace with you. Some people would refer to this as closure. It is also possible that your ex wants you back and the apology is an attempt to re-open a dialogue between you.

Should I accept my ex apology?

If you’ve been wronged, you want to feel as though the apology you receive is genuine. If it’s not, that’s one of those times when you shouldn’t feel as though you’re obligated to accept. ‘ When they’re not sorry and/or it’s not alright, it is perfectly okay to not accept an apology.”

Why would an ex contact me?

The reason an ex contacts you is their insecurities. They want to feel you’re still attracted to them. They want to make sure you’re not happier without them. It all comes down to the ego.

Should You Follow Your Ex’s text messages after no contact?

You guessed it. Don’t go chasing after your ex’s text messages until after you have implemented No Contact. If you do it sooner, before NC, or after, you are asking for trouble. Angry and resentful feelings are always lingering near the surface shortly after the breakup. Much more often than not, you and your ex will butt heads.

Should you respond to your ex when you stop talking to them?

First of all, you don’t need to keep responding to your ex whenever your ex feels like chatting. You’re not your ex’s puppet and you certainly don’t owe your ex anything. If you don’t want to keep your pain alive, there’s a simple solution to your problem. Simply say that you’d like some space and that you want to focus on yourself.

Why should I not apologize to my ex husband?

The reason many advice columns say not to apologize is that so many apologies are done incorrectly and for weak reasons. When giving an apology you should not expect to be forgiven. There’s a chance that what you did hurt your ex bad enough that they are not at a place to give forgiveness.

How to apologize to someone you don’t know?

Make it clear you’re saying sorry without expecting anything of it and try to distinguish between them wanting back in, versus them wanting some answers. Your apology may instigate some lingering questions, answer them and let the other party have their closure too.