What to do when you are hurt by someone you love?

The only way to truly stop feeling guilty after you’ve hurt someone you love is to forgive yourself. Self-forgiveness is the only way to truly recover and move forward after you’ve hurt someone you love. Before forgiving yourself for having hurt someone you love, though, you’ll want to apologize to them first.

Why do I feel uncomfortable with affection?

Being loved arouses anxiety because it threatens long-standing psychological defenses formed early in life in relation to emotional pain and rejection, therefore leaving a person feeling more vulnerable.

Why does affection make me angry?

Being valued by a loved one challenges our preexisting negative views toward ourselves. Being in love makes our lives a lot more meaningful, and therefore, both frightening and painful. Our tendency to feel angry at love directed toward us is a defense we all develop in response to these deep-seated fears of intimacy.

Why do some people hate when others do well?

No matter how well your social interactions go, how much you accomplish, or how much good you put into the world, you will always have haters. An unfortunate aspect of life is that some people hate when others do well. It’s just a way of life.

How can I Stop Feeling like I Hate Everyone?

Feeling that you hate everyone can be exhausting. Learning to trust other people, even just a little bit, can help you to relax around others and start to build up a support network. Learning to trust other people can be a slow process. Don’t be tempted to force yourself to override your instincts.

Why do I Hate Being Alone all the time?

We can’t put the finger on it, but being alone just doesn’t feel right. (Even if we wished we could just press a button to make us OK with not having to meet people.) If you feel that you hate everyone, or almost everyone, might be a sign that you struggle to trust other people.

Does Everyone hate you if you become successful?

And the sad truth is that by becoming successful, most people will hate you – even if they don’t say it. Even your family and friends will resent you. The bystander effect is what happens when OTHER people watch YOU go after the dream… while they let their own dream wither and die.