Why do narcissists have a harem?

They need people with a capacity for empathy – people they can provoke and utilize when they need them. The presence of empathic caretakers in a narcissist’s harem is an essential one because narcissists need to maintain the image that they are charitable people, no matter how conniving they are.

Do narcissists think of you after discard?

Many narcissistic individuals are quite capable of assuring you that you are the love of their life one day, and then suddenly leave you for someone else because they got angry or bored. Their desire to reconnect with you after the “discard,” is equally shallow.

What is a “narcissistic harem?

So, the term “narcissistic harem” actually means a group or “collection” of friends/admirers (AKA sources of narcissistic supply) that a narcissist gathers up to keep him topped up on his daily supply of love and admiration.

Do Narcissists like to throw away people they don’t like?

Narcissists, in the same way don’t like to throw away the people they’ve collected. Both are pathological, unhealthy and dysfunctional. A Narcissist will offer up friendship after he has screwed you around for the 100th time, but what he’s really offering is a membership to his harem.

Do flying monkeys mean anything in a narcissistic harem?

In the case of the narcissistic harem, the flying monkeys often mean well, but they end up evangelizing the narc’s message without even realizing it. Flying monkeys are often just other causalities of the narc’s manipulation tactics, but they’re always falling for it.

Why does the narcissist consider this person a challenge?

The narc considers this person a challenge because she, like he, is unlikely to commit, so she seems hard to get. In the case of the narcissistic harem, the flying monkeys often mean well, but they end up evangelizing the narc’s message without even realizing it.