Can a wife refuse sex in marriage?

Neither the husband, nor the wife have to earn sex in marriage. A wife cannot flatly refuse her husband, she may only ask for a delay (a raincheck) and then she needs to make good on that raincheck as soon as possible. A husband has the right to confront his wife’s sexual refusal as a sin not only against him, but also against God.

Is it okay to deny sex to your boyfriend?

Yes, this is the guy who you entrusted with your heart and life. When you deny sex to him, suggesting with your actions or words that he is an insensitive animal because he wants to make love to his wife, you are hurting him.

How do you deal with rejections in a relationship?

At first, people typically deal with such rejections by expressing disappointment, making off-hand comments, or resorting to passive-aggressive behaviors in the hopes of their partner getting the hint. Even when the subject is broached directly, the reluctant partner will typically make excuses or engage in feeble efforts that might not last.

What happens when your spouse rejects you?

Over time, of course, such rejections are extremely damaging to the relationship as a whole. In order to protect themselves from further hurt, a rejected spouse or partner is likely to become emotionally withdrawn, distant, and disengaged. (See Are You Married but Lonely?)

How do I confront my wife about her sexual refusal?

8 Steps to confronting your wife’s sexual refusal Step 1 – Rebuke her privately Step 2 – Stop taking her on dates or trips Step 3 – No unnecessary household upgrades Step 4 – Stop doing the little extra things Step 5 – Remove her funding Step 6 – Rebuke her before witnesses Step 7 – Bring her before the Church

Does God want sex in your marriage?

As I said in previous posts – God wants sex in your marriage, your desire for sex in your marriage is not a sin, but rather it is a gift from God. My Pastor often says God put a desire in men and a command toward men that they be “intoxicated” or “ravished” by their wife’s body.

What should a husband do when his wife is not in the mood?

A husband needs to use prayerful discernment to discover if her reasons for “not being in the mood” are for legitimate physical or mental health reasons or if the problem is wrong thinking and wrong attitude on the part of his wife. If her reasons are legitimate, then she needs to seek medical or psychological help as soon as possible.