How do you know if an Infj is upset?

Usually, they will get more withdrawn and stuck in their head when they’re angry. They might try to shut off noise, lights, or find a room they can hide away in to deal with their thoughts and charged emotions. Some INFJs shut down and stop talking and reacting, trying to sort out their thoughts inside.

What hurts an Infj the most?

As sensitive Introverts, INFJs unfortunately often attract toxic, narcissistic or emotionally needy people because they want to help them, some of whom take without giving much in return. But INFJs need kindness, harmony and mutual support in their relationships and they won’t be taken for granted forever.

How do you tell if an Infj has feelings for you?

INFJs tend to be guarded about their physical space, except for when it comes to family and VERY close friends. If they’re finding excuses to touch your hand, bump up against you, or hug you, then it probably means they have feelings for you. Keep in mind, some INFJs will still feel too shy to get very close to you.

When does an Infj stop caring?

An INFJ will stop caring when they realize that what they are putting into the relationship is less than what they are getting out of the relationship and they do not see that changing. At this point, they will go from being very caring to being rather checked out and will likely door slam you.

What do INFJ do when they are hurt?

INFJs care so much about making others happy, and so when they get their feelings hurt they don’t want to make it a big deal. They might want to appear strong, and pretend as if they are not sensitive to the things people say. It is important for the INFJ to be honest with others, as well as with themselves.

How do INFJs act around their crush?

Generally speaking, INFJs do not handle crushes very gracefully. Mature INFJs who are more in touch with Fe/Se will trust their intuitions and, as a result, be more bold to pursue crushes even if they feel some anxiety about the outcome; they will feel confident in their own ability to deal with whatever happens.

How do INFJ deal with heartbreak?

INFJs cope by retreating into solitude. The thing about retreating into solitude for an INFJ who’s dealing with heartbreak is that it’ll move them past a place of healthy self-love and self-reflection and into a world where loss and emptiness rule, and that’s a dark place for the typically idealistic INFJ.