Is it OK to get revenge on someone?

It is inherently unhealthy because it takes a psychological and physical toll on the person. Venting those feelings of anger and hostility does not decrease those feelings,” he said. “It may give you a cathartic feeling, but it doesn’t last.” Revenge spawns an endless cycle of retribution.

How do I get revenge on someone who hurt me?

Ask for an apology. It lessens the need for revenge and helps you forgive someone who hurt you. End the talk by politely asking for an apology. You can end the conversation by saying something like, “I know you maybe don’t think you did anything wrong, but I need you to apologize.”

Should we seek revenge on those who have wronged us?

Seeking revenge doesn’t cancel out the behaviors that hurt you. It just perpetuates the cycle of pain. We have all wanted to exert some sort of revenge on something at one point or another in our lives; it is a normal reaction when we are wronged. The only way to stop revenge is to give up and accept it.

Should I take revenge or revenge?

Sometimes a word can be used as either a noun or a verb, without changing the spelling. That’s the case with revenge. You can take revenge (noun) on someone who hurt you, or you can revenge (verb) the hurt, punishing the person who wronged you.

What are the effects of revenge?

Revenge does not undo the harm, but it can restore the balance of suffering between the victim and the transgressor. Revenge can also help restore the balance of power between the victim and the transgressor (Frijda, 1994). By inflicting harm, transgressors imply that their victims are unworthy of respect.

Can you forgive someone and still be hurt?

Originally Answered: Can you forgive someone and still be hurt? Of course you can. Just because you forgive doesn’t mean your feelings are invalid or that they just stop. It means you stop holding it against them.

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