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Is it weird to bring your girlfriend to a funeral?

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Is it weird to bring your girlfriend to a funeral?

It’s perfectly normal to attend a funeral with your partner, even if only your partner knew the dead person. You’re supporting your partner in a time of grief.

What is the etiquette for attending a funeral?

Unless the family wants the funeral or memorial service to be private, you are welcome to attend. If you are close to the bereaved or the deceased, live close by and have no extenuating circumstances, then, by all means, go to the funeral. In fact, if you don’t go, your presence may be missed.

What do you say to your girlfriend going to a funeral?

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A few words you can say include:

  • “I was so sorry to learn about your loss.”
  • “I’ll be thinking of you today.”
  • “You’re in my thoughts and prayers today.”
  • “I’m so sorry you’re going through this.”
  • “Don’t worry about work.
  • “I’m here if you ever need to talk.”
  • “I’m really sorry.”

Is it rude to take photos at a funeral?

In general, it is wise to avoid taking pictures at a funeral or a memorial service unless you have been specifically asked to do so by the deceased’s family. Deciding to snap a few candids of the cousins gathered together can create tension and ruin the mood at the service.

Is it rude not to attend a funeral?

It’s considered proper etiquette to pay your respects in another way if you’re unable to attend the funeral. While you shouldn’t feel guilty if you can’t attend, you should take action to honor the deceased and their family.

Who goes in first at a funeral?

Family and close friends will then leave first, followed by the remainder of the funeral attendees. If it is a burial funeral, the coffin will be taken to a grave before being lowered into the ground.

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What do you do when someone close to your girlfriend dies?

What to Say When Someone Dies

  • “I feel your pain.” (Do not say, “I know exactly how you feel.”)
  • “How about a hug?” (Or just give them a hug.)
  • “I’m here for you.” (And then be there.)
  • “I’ll bring you some lasagna next Tuesday.” (Or offer another specific way of helping.)

Is it bad luck to approach a funeral procession without stopping?

First, it’s considered very bad fortune to transport a body in your own vehicle. And approaching a funeral procession without pulling over to the side and stopping is not only bad taste, it’s illegal in some jurisdictions.

What are the DOS and don’ts of Funeral Etiquette?

9 Dos and Don’ts of Funeral Etiquette 1. DO: DRESS CONSERVATIVELY “Modesty reigns. You’re there to listen and learn, not seize the limelight,” Cunningham says. 2. DON’T: SIT JUST ANYWHERE The general practice is that the first few rows of the church or venue are reserved for… 3. DO: ACT

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How early should you show up to a funeral?

DON’T: BE LATE Cunningham says it’s a good idea to show up about 10 minutes early to a funeral. (If you think the service will be crowded, swing by a half-hour early so you can nab a seat.) If you do come late, the Emily Post Institute recommends that you remain unobtrusive by entering a row through a side aisle.

What happens if you’re Tardy for a funeral?

If there’s a procession, wait outside until it’s done. However, it’s not the end of the world if you’re tardy. At the end of the day, the family is likely to be distracted for reasons other than your delayed arrival.