Should I punish my child for getting AB?
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Should I punish my child for getting AB?
Should I punish my child for a bad grade? The short answer is: the punishment should be appropriate. Many parents threaten to take their child out of sports or extracurricular activities, but this isn’t an effective solution.
Why do parents punish their child for no reason?
Parents observe the child’s reaction in the short term—the child is upset and stops the behavior—so, they conclude it is an effective teaching tool. Parents also believe that the punishment promotes effective child socialization because it teaches the child what not to do.
Why do parents worry about grades?
Research shows that kids may interpret these expectations as pressure. Parental pressure to excel can increase kids’ risk of stress, as well as have a negative impact on their well-being. This is especially true if parents value grades and achievement over things like empathy, compassion, kindness, and social skills.
Should you reward your child for A grades?
‘A reward that acknowledges a great effort is more effective than one that is prom ised upfront for getting an A. Appreciation is always a better motivator than control : Encouraging a child to do his or her best is enough.
How do you reward straight A’s?
Praise and Other Incentives for Good Grades
- Bake a Cake. Bake something special as a reward.
- Watch a Movie. Spend an afternoon or evening at the movies together.
- Eat Pizza. Go out for pizza.
- Host a Sleepover.
- Give Them Extra Time.
- Pick out New Books.
- Go for Ice Cream.
- Serve a Favorite Meal.
Are grades good or bad?
Grades make it easy for students to understand where they stand in a class or on a particular subject. A bad grade on a test gives students a clear idea about their weaknesses and what areas need improvement. Conversely, a string of good grades demonstrates where they excel.