Should you tell the new supply about the narcissist?

No matter how tempted you may be to warn them of the truth – don’t do it. Don’t try to save the narcissist’s new supply. They will never believe you, just as you wouldn’t have believed anyone if they had tried to warn you, all that time ago. It will only backfire on you.

Should you feel sorry for a narc?

If you are a caring compassionate person, it is natural to feel sorry for others who suffer, including the narcissist. If you’re especially empathetic, it is your “normal” to feel others’ pain and to try to caretake them on the road toward peace and happiness.

How does the NARC feel when you block them?

Most narcissists will not readily change their behavior once you ignore them. They might make half-hearted attempts to “get better,” but they often abandon these efforts once they can refuel their narcissistic supply. This pattern often leads you to feel exhausted, resentful, and angry.

How do narcissists find new supply so quickly?

The narcissist needs others to boost their ego and feed their feelings of grandiosity and superiority. They would not be willing to have a gap in people who serve that role, so they look for a new supply even while they are still with their old partner.

Is it okay to feel sorry for a narcissist?

Feeling sorry for the narcissist for what they sustained then, is completely understandable and the inevitable place an empath and compassionate person will go. Which is fine, so long as you can separate this from the fact of who they are now: a person who imposes on others the very same harm they experienced in the past.

Should I hurt my narcissistic ex-boyfriend?

Even if you can feel your blood is boiling, just be calm. Because if you do the narcissist will see it works to make you jealous and the narcissist will have control over you. Many people wants to hurt their narcissistic ex.

Does the narcissist prefer you over the new supply?

In your heart, you may want very much for the narcissist to prefer you over the new supply but, the fact is, narcissists don’t really miss any of their former supply sources. Narcissists don’t stay in relationships because they emotionally bond with their partner (s). Narcissists typically have what is called an avoidant attachment style.

Why do narcissists play their exes against each other?

To make the new supply jealous and create more heartache to the former supply, (devalue them). They play them one against the other. The narcissist will play themselves as the victim and portray the former supply as the controlling, jealous, crazy ex.