What decides who we love?

Letting ourselves fall in love because of desire or strong feelings for a person is normal. Passionate love is developed as a result of feelings that lead to sexual attraction, physical interest and romance. In the absence of intimacy and commitment, infatuation is developed with the person you love.

What are the influences on who we love and why we love?

Love is most likely influenced by both biological drives and cultural influences. While hormones and biology are important, the way we express and experience love is also influenced by our personal conceptions of love.

Why do we think we love someone?

When we determine we have fallen in love with someone, this is often done based on euphoric feelings of infatuation. We think about the person constantly, craving connection with them both physically and emotionally. We want to know their thoughts, feelings, wants, and needs.

Why do we fall in love with someone and not another?

According to another specialist, Vadim Petrovsky, the person who we fall in love with resembles ourselves more than anyone else. We fall in love because someone fulfils a dream, intellectually or sexually. Then, we fall in love with the couple that we have built, because we are happy with the image that it offers.”

Is true love possible?

Cynics often swear it doesn’t exist, while hopeless romantics think everyone should set out to find their soulmates. With science now showing that true love is not only possible, but can actually last a lifetime, we’ve decided to look at the psychological elements that allow love to bloom or fade.

What does a man fall in love with?

Most men want to fall in love with a woman they are physically attracted to, who makes them happy, who they make happy, and who shares values and goals with them. Men don’t typically fall in love with women who don’t give them at least some, if not most, of the things that they are looking for.

Why do we choose to love these people?

We choose to love these people because they are the only ones with whom we share an intimate connection deep enough that it can awaken and illuminate the darkest corners of ourselves, and they are the only ones who can leave and let us do what we are here to do: resolve and actualize and heal them on our own.

Why do we love people who can’t love us back?

We choose to love people who cannot love us back to teach ourselves that we are, in fact, worthy of being loved back. We choose these people because they represent the parts of us that we don’t love – why else would we waste our time on people who don’t return our affection?

Why don’t people love us for who we are?

They don’t know us at the core and choose to love us for all of who we are. At the end of the day, if they don’t feel for us the way we feel for them, it’s about THEM. Obsessing over getting them to feel something, doing all we can to be the person they would want, is a waste of time for everyone.

Who is the person who you can truly experience love?

The person whom which we can truly experience love comes along once we are healed, once we are open. They come into our lives once we have let go of the need to have our holes filled by others and have finally learned to love ourselves.