What is an abusive father?

Abusive fathers know how to manipulate an abused teen and child into believing that they are at fault for the abuse, or the abuse never happened, or threatens the child never to speak of the abuse.

What does the Bible say about honoring an abusive parent?

Just as Jesus loved us in our sinful state, we can honor an abusive parent. It means showing grace and compassion to those who don’t deserve it so that God is glorified and the obedient are blessed and rewarded (Matthew 5:44-48; 1 John 4:18-21).

How can I help my child recover from an abusive parent?

Here are some practical tips: by the grace of God, be willing to forgive. A willingness to forgive honors both God and the parent. Pray for your abuser. Let go of expectations that your parent will ever be the parent you want him or her to be; replace your disappointment and sadness with acceptance of who the person is.

Do we have to honor Our Fathers and mothers?

This dilemma weighs heavy on the hearts of many children of abusive parents, and abusers and their Silent Partners never miss an opportunity to remind us that, as Christians, we “HAVE to honor our fathers and mothers”, apparently, and according to their thinking, no matter what. Certainly none of us wants to break one of the Ten Commandments.

How do I know if my child has been sexually abused?

Physical signs of sexual abuse are rare. If you see these signs, bring your child to a doctor. Your doctor can help you understand what may be happening and test for sexually transmitted diseases. Pain, discoloration, bleeding or discharges in genitals, anus or mouth. Persistent or recurring pain during urination and bowel movements.

What happens when a boy grows up without being abused?

Boys who grow up without coming to terms with their childhood abuse often struggle as men with addictions, anxiety, depression, and thoughts of suicide as well as the inability to develop or maintain relationships. The good news: healing is possible. A first step is acknowledging that abuse occurred and articulating what has been silenced.

Did My Child “want” to be abused?

The truth is, even if a child did “want” it, it is still only the abuser’s fault. A child does not have the understanding or emotional maturity to give real consent to any sexual act, under any circumstances. Accepting this will help you move past your feelings of guilt, shame, and confusion.