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What is narcissistic idealization?

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What is narcissistic idealization?

Idealization: In this phase, the narcissist uplifts their partner with tons of love and affection while they make themselves appear better than they are. This phase is referred to as “love bombing.” The narcissist appears to be the perfect mate.

Do narcissists just want attention?

We all need to feel heard and have a sense of belonging, but narcissists crave this attention constantly. They will deliberately find or create situations in which they are regularly at the center of attention. Narcissists are never satisfied—no matter how much attention they receive, it will never be enough.

How do I stop the narcissistic cycle?

Stop the Cycle of Abuse: Countering the Narcissistic Rant

  1. Be careful what you let in.
  2. Test what is said.
  3. Look at the big picture.
  4. View interactions as a chess game.
  5. Plan your words ahead of time.
  6. Stay positive.
  7. Take time before you respond.
  8. Find areas of agreement.
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What is the difference between a narcissist and an idealist?

The answer? Whereas narcissists idealize people and things they believe will enhance their own status, they are driven by a desire to possess and control such coveted prizes, not by respect. And if they are thwarted in getting what they want, they feel hateful envy, a desire to debase and destroy that which they cannot have.

Why do narcissists want what they want?

The answer? While narcissists idealize people and things they believe will enhance their own worth, they are driven by a desire to possess and control such coveted prizes, not by true respect. And if the person with NPD is thwarted in getting what they want, they feel hateful envy, a desire to debase and destroy that which they cannot have.

What is the unattainable to a narcissist?

The unattainable becomes something to be outdone and defeated until nothing else but the narcissist stands tall, superior, peerless, and invulnerable. To the narcissist life is a war, and each moment a potential battle. Narcissists respect nothing.

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Do narcissists respect people who are closest to them?

But the reality of is that they view others as competitors to be crushed in the brutal game of life, and they use those closest to them to carry their projected shame and self-hatred so they don’t have to. No, narcissists do not respect integrity, kindness, truth, mercy, justice, compassion, and gratitude.