What to do when someone tells lies about you to others?

How to deal with liars.

1. Separate yourself from their behavior. One of the biggest problems we face when encountering a liar is usually that of personalization.
2. Check and confirm your facts.
3. Protect yourself.
4. Ask for the story in reverse.
5. Call them out.
6. Hold on to your integrity.
7. Always reflect.
8. Accept who they are.

How do you feel when someone lies to you explain your reaction?

You catch someone in a lie… and it hurts. You feel a cauldron of emotions beginning to bubble up within you. Anger, shock, resentment, disappointment, sadness. You’ve been disrespected, humiliated… you might even go so far as to say you feel violated.

How do you trust someone who lies to you?

Rebuilding trust when you’ve been betrayed

1. Consider the reason behind the lie or betrayal. When you’ve been lied to, you might not care much about the reasons behind it.
2. Communicate, communicate, communicate.
3. Practice forgiveness.
4. Avoid dwelling on the past.

What to say to someone who thinks your lying?

Explain to the person who is accusing you of being a liar: “I wouldn’t lie to you, I promise.” Hopefully, if the person has any faith in you, or you haven’t already damaged the trust previously, she will believe that you are being honest.

How do you get someone to believe you when you’re telling the truth?

8 Ways to Make People Believe What You Tell Them

1. Tell the truth.
2. Tell the whole truth.
3. Don’t over-context the truth.
4. Freely confess ignorance.
5. First, listen.
6. It’s not the words, it’s the intent.
7. Use commonsense anchors.
8. Use the language of the other person.

How do you prove you are trustworthy after lying?

How to Rebuild Trust in a Relationship After Lying

1. Get real with yourself. You’ve lied to your partner, but don’t lie to yourself.
2. Apologize… twice.
3. Validate your partner’s responses and reactions.
4. Commit to truthful living going forward.
5. Use the situation as a growth opportunity.
6. Forgive yourself.